Secrets on Getting your Ex-Girlfriend Back
After many attempts of soul searching, it ended up in failures and frustrations, and you thought about this girl that you loved so much that you started reminiscing. Months after your break up, you started to wonder what happened between the both of you, and you started to ask yourself if there was anything else that you can do to make up with her.
There are several more instances like these that many men are experiencing. There is always this one thing that makes us remember our past relationships and thinking about trying to make amends. Should I even bother to attempt for a 2nd chance? Is there any chance that she might be thinking the same? If I do decide to try for a 2nd chance, will I succeed? We will never know. Unless you try! To bolster your confidence, here are some great tips on how to win your ex back.
The safest thing to do right now is to send her a text or e-mail, but if you have the guts, then call her. Ask her how she is. What she has been up to. Try not to open up if she is in a present relationship, unless she tells you. Don't sound like a stalker, make it in a sincere way. If she does reply to your texts, or answers your questions, it would be a good idea to ask for a meet up, a friendly lunch between old friends would do.
If she agrees to meet up with you, try not to be awkward. Remember, if you are serious about getting back with her the 2nd time around, you need to forget what you had in the past. You need to build, not rebuild, a new relationship with her. Try not to bring up the past during conversations, continue the flow of your conversations and make her feel that you are trying to make new connections with her.
Taking Steps, One at a Time
If your first meet up was successful, you might as well try to ask her for another date. After several hang-outs, this will depend upon you, if you have gained the confidence, ask her to get back again, if she doesn't agree, don't force her, but accept and be glad that you have somewhat reconnected with an old friend. But if she does agree, maintain the present relationship you have. One great tip to remember, try to establish open-communication with her the 2nd time around. If you are serious about it, you should really consider in cementing trust and openness. Go to http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seduction for more information.